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Happiness: A Pursuit or a Practice?

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spiritual happiness is never merely personal in nature. It is linked to an awareness of the suffering and pleasure of others.

A basketball court transformed by flowers and incandescent light. Four thousand people in attendance. Four global religious leaders. I have never concentrated as hard as I did in the two hours I spent on that stage. But it was, in the end, a delight. And it was fascinating as an encounter as much as a conversation. The Dalai Lama’s embodied joy, his radiant and playful presence, was as defining as the words he spoke.

The biggest challenge with discussing “happiness” in this culture might be finding our way back to the substance of that word itself — a substance that has been hollowed out by its uses in culture. I found myself very much planted in the definition of happiness that the French-born Tibetan Buddhist scientist/monk Matthieu Ricard offered on this program and podcast in 2009. He defines happiness as “genuine flourishing” — not a pleasurable sensation or mood, but a way of being in the world that can encompass the fullness of human experience — joy and pleasure as well as suffering and loss.

Professor Nasr, Bishop Jefferts Schori, and Rabbi Sacks all added to that definition as they laid out the virtues and habits, the spiritual technologies, that their traditions have carried forward in time. They all described corollaries, in a sense, to the Dalai Lama’s joyful yet disciplined teachings on cultivating compassion and calmness in the mind as way of flourishing in and amidst all of life’s experiences. But the most exciting part of interreligious encounter, for me, is not rushing to hear similarities but savoring particularities — the distinctive vocabularies of thought and practice, the beautiful and intriguing differences that come to light even as we may seem to be circling towards the same goal.

And so among my favorite moments are Prof. Seyyed Hossein Nasr’s explication of beauty as inextricably linked to virtue and happiness in Muslim tradition. Beauty, he says, makes the soul happy. Bishop Jefferts Schori talked about the long tradition in Christianity of practicing gratitude and “the presence of God” in the midst of ordinary activities of life. Rabbi Sacks evoked sabbath as a space to focus on the things in life that are “important but not urgent.” He described the extraordinary power of pausing to let life’s “blessings” — an awareness of the deepest sources of our happiness — “catch up with us.” Such reflections unsettle notions of happiness as a “right” and as something to be “pursued.”

A discussion of happiness is intrinsically serious, too. As we were also reminded in the course of this discussion, spiritual happiness is never merely personal in nature. It is linked to an awareness of the suffering and pleasure of others. And at the same time, it is something we cultivate in our bodies as well as our minds. It communicates itself in our very presence.

There was, fittingly, a great deal of laughter on this stage of religious dignitaries seated center court at Emory. There was a festive atmosphere in the room altogether. Listen, and watch, for yourself. Ponder, and enjoy this dynamic discussion to get a full flavor of the physical and engaged presence of these prominent religious leaders as they contemplate the meaning of happiness.

Source: blog.onbeing.org

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  1. Lovely, provocative post – not in a quarrelsome sense, but like a nudge from someone trying to wake another, gently.

    The novelist Flannery O’Connor was a great lover of Thomas Aquinas, and she often spoke about virtues of life and virtues of writing were habits to be cultivated. A habit of happiness, the practice of happiness, seem related – and far more substantial than what passes for happiness in our society.

    I hope things are sorting themselves out in your country, post-storm.

    shoreacres

    November 9, 2010 at 11:23 am

  2. If I’m not mistaken, St. Thomas Aquinas taught that there is a direct relationship between virtue and happiness. He said: “Happiness is secured through virtue.”

    You’re right – this is not the concept of happiness that our society has. Our society needs to recover it’s sense of morality and spirituality if we are to find our way.

    Our country was devastated by Typhoon Megi. We were directly affected by the typhoon, and had to stay in a hotel for a day or two. But we consider ourselves fortunate because we are able to stay in a comfortable place when the typhoon was raging unlike most of our countrymen whose lives were endangered and whose property were severely damaged.

    But, thank God, we, Filipinos, are very resilient. And we are recovering…

    Matt

    mattandjojang

    November 9, 2010 at 3:53 pm


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